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2022-04-29

A K-DRAMA ADDICTION: CATS VS DOGS

I have a new addiction: Korean K-Dramas on Netflix. An idea for a show: CATS VS DOGS. Working in and around an animal shelter has all the intensity and daily drama that a good K-Drama producer could want. Comedy, Tragedy, and Romance. Medical mysteries to solve. Personal struggles. The ups and downs of working with a team. Disappointments and Triumphs.

CATS V DOGS A crusty old cat lady versus a sincere and sympathetic dogs veterinarian. She shows him how cats can be lovable. He teaches her to be more trusting. Pasts revealed. Medical cases solved. Funds raised. Romance blossoms. Setting: a fishing village on a beautiful beach surrounded by jungle. Almost true to my life except I have not yet met the veterinarian of my dreams.

They must have amazing acting schools in Korea. And wonderful directors and writers for the shows. The shows have typical formulas depending on type - but the formulas get reworked in various settings. And they all have elements underscoring the contemporary clashes between conservative traditions and the values emerging in 2022.

Startup was so exciting for insights into the business world and 21st century technology.

Forecasting Love and Weather is a lovely May-December romance between an older woman boss and a brilliant young male forecaster while delving into the world of meterology.

Have been binge-watching Good Doctor - Korean and The Good Doctor - American. Both center on an autistic but savant character who comes up with answers to medical mysteries and genius solutions. Doctor Romantic is another I loved, especially the 1st season characters. I like the focus on the characters and dynamics of the members of the teams that surround the central characters.

One Spring Day has an adorable couple - a strong female lead and her sisters and the humble but beautiful man she is drawn to. She is a librarian; he is a pharmacist. Simple settings - the library, the pharmacy, their homes apartments. And much time spent in cars, restaurants and walks in parks. He plays basketball. She deals with a boyfriend she is bored with. He has a gorgeous little son. The same settings repeat in so many of the K-dramas. But this one has such naturalistic acting that it seems impossible that they are repeating scripted lines. It feels so real.

Crash Landing on You pairs a South Korean woman with a North Korean man in such an intense romance that the real life actors fell in love and recently had a lavish wedding. 

All time best so far - HOMETOWN CHA CHA CHA. The polls agree. Setting: a seaside fishing village. Characters: A big city woman dentist who starts her own clinic. The town's chief who is both big chief and bottle washer. Many delightful characters - townspeople and visiting TV crew. Romance: 5 stars. The series tracks the growth of the relationship between the dentist and the chief = at first very distrustful through growing trust and admiration with setbacks as past scars are revealed until a very very happy ending! The "chemistry" between the leading actors, the richness of characterizations, and the beauty of the place - all alluring. 

High production values for all the K-Dramas impress me too. 

But the real key to my addiction is the "comedy of manners" that seems to underscore all the series. Sometimes openly expressed in the various levels of bowing to each other - no nod or a small nod means superior disapproves of inferior. Female characters often are the leaders in the fight against older confining traditions - and the dramas underline how the world is changing. No longer is marriage a requirement - heartbreaking and sometimes hilarious scenes of older generations trying to demand preservation of traditions and misunderstanding the younger ones in their quests for self-determination. 

American TV and movies in comparison have so much gratuitous senseless violence, abusive language and harshness. Caring as a theme seems to have been lost. To me, the cracks in the veneer came with the debut of The Simpsons. People laughed and we got "Trumped." Like taking the lid off a trash can, the garbage in American culture was revealed in the so-called Trump years. It's still there but maybe slowly it can be cleaned up. Otherwise I despair for American culture. 

I know that there are still many Americans on the more liberal side - people who care about the environment, the climate disasters, the horrors of factory farms and the corporate takeovers of the global economy. I know there are people who care about the land, the sea, the animals, and the fates of people all over the planet. 

But the left is under siege from the right - those who assert their rights to litter, to drive fast, to not to wear masks, vaccinate, or clean up their acts. The ones who do not care, who think that freedom means they don't have to be considerate of other people - they worry me greatly. May the ones who do care survive and thrive!

In the meantime, I find life in Asia and as depicted on Korean TV series much more enjoyable. People in Asia - or at least on TV - do consider others. They do care. And that gives me some hope.


Copyright 2022, TF (teviothome@gmail.com)

2022-04-22

Honey Bear's Legacy - the beautiful Cat Beach Sanctuary in Penang, Malaysia

Copyright 2010, TF (teviothome@gmail.com)

RIP Miss Honey Bear - you are missed. 
Thank you for the years of Love we shared.

Happy Spring 2022!

It's been more than a decade since I "blogged" regularly when living on Langkawi island in Malaysia. After several delightful years there, I took 8 cats on the ferry boat and moved to Penang island. Ten plus years of my life have been devoted to caring for cats and creating the Cat Beach Sanctuary. In 2022 I am back in Thailand and looking forward to returning to teaching - but in touch with Cat Beach every day. 

It is because of a cat I named Honey Bear that my life took such a dramatic turn - and I joined the ranks of the "Crazy Cat Ladies." She recently passed away in my house in Batu Ferringhi, Penang, Malaysia - and like so many pluses and minuses these past two years of the pandemic have wrought, I could only watch her passing over the internet.

Please read her story here and please consider joining me in supporting Cat Beach.

Please read and share the story of Honey Bear's Legacy - the beautiful beachside No-Kill Non-profit home for cats - Cat Beach Sanctuary. Let's help Cat Beach help cats!
https://mailchi.mp/066ebace11fe/honey-bears-legacy

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2013-06-02

Awakening to the sounds of birds and the sea

Waking Up at The Ocean Residence, Langkawi Island, Malaysia
What is it like to wake up at The Ocean Residence? 
Sometimes it’s the sounds of birds that wake me or the morning sunlight streaming in through a crack in the curtain. Other times, if there’s an onshore wind, I might hear the roll and toss of the tide coming or going from the shore.
Occasionally, I hear voices – the friendly chatter of Langkawi’s fishermen as they prepare their nets for the day or launch their small boats. If I wake early enough to catch the dawn sun rising over the oh-so-green islands across the way, it’s so quiet and still that I can hear the waves lapping gently
I head back to the kitchen, grateful that the housekeepers have provided all that I need for a good strong morning cuppa. With laptop or tablet in one hand and my coffee cup in the other, I head out to the veranda to enjoy the dawning of a new day in this extraordinary place.
  
Surely this has to be one of the world’s most beautiful morning scenes. What’s it like? It’s magical!
Everyone needs a little romance in their lives. For me, life on Langkawi island off the northern Malaysia / Thailand border was a romantic sojourn - in many ways, a retreat from the world. I lived several lovely places on the island over a period of 3 years or so but the last - and certainly not least! - was at my client's, Paul Penders, property. I had an amazing room on the 2nd floor of "The Container House," an exceptional building constructed from 17 shipping containers. My room was lined with red brick and closely resembled friends' apartments where I've stayed in New York City! Since I left, that room has been refurbished with a kitchen added -- and I'll hope to go back and visit again one day. It was the ultimate 'getaway.'

Visit the new website and blog for The Ocean Residence Langkawi at www.theoceanresidence.com
See also my Facebook Page "Island Lifestyles"
Copyright 2013, TF (teviothome@gmail.com)

2013-03-20

A Year of Blogs in One!


Quiet here on my home blog for months but more to come...

I've been writing at least 8 per month for Paul Penders International -- a natural organic beauty products company. See www.paulpenders.com/ppblog.

See also my CV with blogs, videos, and more at www.teviotfairservis.wordpress.com

For the fun of it! Please visit my Island Lifestyles website and blog at www.islandlifestyle.weebly.com



Copyright 2010, TF (teviothome@gmail.com)

2012-03-10

Langkawi Life




Thanks for stopping by! Writing a lot these days -- and realized I missed posting in February entirely!

Cats-cats-cats are dominating my life these days. I was given two kittens last June -- Pebbles and BammBamm. Since moving to Cenang beach, a stray has moved in whose name has gravitated from the simple "Gray Kitty" to "Grady." Now I'm feeding about 10 strays. And my friend who has Pebbles and BammBamm's black tuxedoed brother, Lucky, has left him with me while she's away. So that's 4 indoor cats and at least 8 outdoors cats. And me -- trying to keep the peace...

Will be uploading my "Langkawi Life" essays soon but in the meantime, go straight to the Langkawi Gazette to read the monthly column which started in Sept 2011:

www.langkawi-gazette.com

See also my guest blogs on www.paulpenders.com -- the natural cosmetics company

Am also writing Lesson Plans for an ESP (English for Special Purposes) course for Ally Int'l in Brazil, continuing to work on two e-books due to be done asap, and the ongoing project of a biography of my amazing father, Dr. Walter A. Fairservis, Jr. (see the Facebook memorial page about him).

More soon. I promise!

Copyright 2012, TF (teviothome@gmail.com)